Love is a beautiful thing and with some tips, it becomes a bosom. Here are 5 unique but timeless pieces of love advice that are actually helpful:

Be yourself

It’s much easier and more fun to be authentic than to pretend to be something or someone else. Healthy relationships are made of real people.

Never take your partner for granted

It is very important to realize that everyone has a breaking point, and if their needs are not met or they don’t feel seen by the other, they will more than likely find it somewhere else. Thus, it is important to make your partner feel appreciated and valued.

Look for opportunities to say “thank you”

Gratitude is the secret to a happy life. Take notice of moments when your partner does something even remotely selfless and kind for you, and thank them for it. Acknowledge things that they wouldn’t expect you to point out.

Keep your language clear and specific

Try to factually describe behavior that you are upset with, avoiding criticism and judgment.  Attack the problem, not the person.

Recognize some problems are not easily solved

Not all differences or difficulties can be resolved.  You are different people, and your values, beliefs, habits, and personality may not always be in alignment.  Communication goes a long way toward helping you understand each other and address concerns, but some things are deeply rooted and may not change significantly.  It is important to figure out for yourself what you can accept, or when a relationship is no longer healthy for you.