”Submission does not mean a woman must lower her voice, essence, and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man”- Dancer Kaffy

August 15, 2021

Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has shared her thoughts on the never-ending debate on submission in marriage.

Some Nigerians have posited that married women have to submit to their husbands whether they like it or not.

Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has shared her thoughts on the never-ending debate on submission in marriage.

Some Nigerians have posited that married women have to submit to their husbands whether they like it or not.

In a post shared on her Instagram page, Kaffy opined that submission doesn’t mean a woman has to lower her voice, essence, or purpose just because she is in the presence of her man. She averred that submission to her means that women are in agreement with the assignments of a man. She however pointed out that most men don’t even have clarity of themselves as they are under too much pressure, distractions, and expectations created by culture and society. 

Her post reads

”The word “Submission” if it were a human being would have committed suicide because of the falsehood attached to how it’s name has been used .

First of all the word does not mean one is a slave to another nor does it mean a woman must lower her voice , essence and purpose just because she is in the presence of a man.

Submission here to me (my point of view) is more of being in agreement with the thought, purpose, assignment and essence a man carries as this would gravely affect the amount of selfless , sacrifice and trust a woman needs to have to become the Favour God has ordained her to be to the man.
And don’t forget every woman carrying Favour is a woman with a dream and essence amd assignment too. She MUST only submit to one who would obtain what she carries in her that God wants to manifest into the world .

Man being a Lord , Custodian or asked to LOVE his wife also comes from a place of nurturing , developing , enduring ,learning , and so many more Christ – like qualities . And not just emotional and financial provision . The world needs to be a better place and it takes people who understands their assignment and purpose on earth .

A lot of our men don’t even have clarity of self , too much pressure ,distractions and expectations created by culture , society in fact safe to say expectations of the FLESH over that of the kingdom has led to a lot of straying of souls .

Both men and women need a break to gain clarity , to find themselves before seeking a partner .

God help us all !”

0 Comments

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published.

Related Articles

New Week Affirmations

Declare what you want to be true about yourself or your life, as if it were already true. Scroll through these 5 positive affirmations... I am thankful for my life. I feel strong and well. I cause my dreams to become my reality. I treasure my hopeful attitude. I trust...

#Faceoftheweek – Jessica Okafor

In an exclusive interview with Jessica Okafor, granted Bayo Speaks as a face of the week. She revealed her background, career, way of life and achievements. Jessica Okafor is the Director of Ispeak Diction and Social Polish Academy (School of Diction and...

Morning Affirmations

Affirmations seem to have benefit for many people, but how, exactly, does affirming yourself help relieve self-sabotage and negative thoughts? Affirmations are nothing more than words. Still, words do have power, all the same, and positive self-talk can offer plenty...

Understanding the meaning of Mental Health

Over the course of your life, if you experience mental health problems, your thinking, mood, and behavior could be affected. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices.  Mental health...

#Faceoftheweek – Kemi Ogunkoya

In an exclusive interview with Kemi Ogunkoya, granted Bayo Speaks as a face of the week. She revealed her background, career, way of life and achievements. Kemi Ogunkoya, is a Leadership Development Strategist, Certified Management Consultant, Author, Creator of The...

#MorningAffirmations

Kick start your day with a positive mindset. Affirmations.. • Any challenge I face is within my ability to handle. • I am prepares to face this . • I am capable and always find a way. • I’m already succeeding. • I’ve got this.

Remember the reason why you held on for so long

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperityto every person you meet. To make all your friends feel that there is something in them. To look at the sunny side of everythingand make your optimism come true. To...